Importance of rehearsing

Hey guys,

This is the second video i'm loading here, which i have recorded just the next day from the last one.

In this video i'll discuss the importance of rehearsing, especially in your house, before you go out to meet women.

One of the biggest and fatal mistakes so many guys are doing is that they only base their improvement and practice on the field itself. THIS IS A BIG MISTAKE. First of all, because it forces you to approach ugly women you don't realy want. And second of all because most of the skills you just can't apply them in the field itself because its a too chaotic place to practice in. Just like professional basketall or football players don't use the game itself to practice.

So give this a watch, and would love to hear your comments and feedback on this one ..



-- leedrag0n

Can other people affect you negatively?

Hey guys,

This is the first video that I'm uploading to my blog so feel free to leave me your comments and feedback at the end of this video.

I have decided to record it after a conversation I had with a female friend of mine, who I've noticed that is thinking in a very limiting and self-destructive way, and how I've noticed that answering her questions directly would mean I'll have to accept her own limiting and self-destructive thinking patterns, and how .. sometimes ... the people who you love the most just have destructive thinking patterns and beliefs.. that if you'll accept them they will fuck up your progress !

So .. I'll hope you'll enjoy the video, and feel free to leave me your comments ..



-- leedrag0n

Avoid desperation !

This post goes out to all you guys out there !


You know .. we all have those times where we just wish we had a girl with us. Sometimes we go out of our house, and we see a hot chick hanging with a guy ... and she looks so good , so hot .. and the guy looks so happy with her ... sometimes we can talk to our friends and they tell us how happy they are with their girlfriends ... sometimes it seems like everyone around us have hot girls in their lives and we do not ... and those are the times where we feel like we want to get a hot girl into our life too !

However, you should know that Desperation is probably the worst place to go and meet women from. If you've ever heard the phrase "All the girls I want - Don't want me" , or "People want what runs from them", then I hope this post will explain it better.

You see, Desperation is terrible for the following reasons :

1. You're putting pressure on yourself - "I gotta get a girl", "I gotta make this work". This will eventually affect you both physiologically, both energetically, and both mentally. People can't think straight when they are under pressure, pressure is realy exhausting and you are more than likely to make mistakes in such a state.

2. Your state is always reflected by your physiology - In other words, how you feel is what you project, or "The mind and body are interconnected to each other and affect each other". I personally don't believe in the "fake it till you make it" theory. Your body has more than 600 muscles in it, some of which are completely out of your conscious control. Any state you feel gets reflected by your physiology. I realy can't believe anyone can control 600 muscles simultaneously at will .... at some level your fake will always be projeted ... and you realy don't want to be in this place with women .. because ...

3. Women are *very* sensitive to your vibe - This is not a bad thing at all. Its simply part of how women are wired. Women take care of babies and know how to read their vibes to know if its time to feed them or get them to sleep, and they can do the same with you. When you come from a place of desperation and pressure where your system is full of inner noise, you're simply going to project a vibe that is realy turning women off !!! (Unless you're incredibly handsome that they don't care)


Now .. those are realy only the starting symptoms for a much bigger problem that may come afterwards: You will go out to the world with alot of pressure and expectations from yourself of "I've gotta find a girl" so you will get exhausted realy quick and your mind won't be quiet. It will be difficult for you to behave in a natural way because you're so desperate to get a result, that you will either think twice before any move you do, or wait for the "perfect" moment or "the perfect answer" , that guess what? never exists .. the vibe you'll present will be an unattractive one because its not clean and filled with alot of inner noise that it will turn and scare women off you, so you will have a difficult time getting results and soon you will start feeling that the whole process of meeting women becomes realy hard ... and this becomes a cycle that will go on and on ... until at some point you'll simply feel stuck and doomed and will stop everything and give up !


Is this realy the place you want to end at ?

Im sure not, but you see .. the problem is that the attitude of being desperate to meet women is infectious among men ... sometimes it seems like men teach each other how to be desperate !

Here's a nice story to illustrate what I mean: One day I was in the mall and I happend to meet a girl who happend to be exactly my type looks wise. An 8-9 on the scale of 1-10 easily. I took her number, and called her after 2 days and we had a great conversation going and I asked her if she wanted to meet .. in the beginning she said they had plans with her sister ... and she'll let me know if it changes. End of the story she told me she's not meeting her sister, but I then couldn't meet her because I finished working realy late ... so we decided to meet another day.

I told this story to a friend of mine, and guess what was the first thing he said?

"Why didn't you meet her????? You gotta strike while the iron is hot !!!!"

Now .. this is not the first time I hear such comments from people I know. Most of the people I ever met in the seduction community have this kind of thinking in their minds. I remember that I had my MSN filled with people from the seduction community. Every single time I told them I went out to sarge, the first question they almost instinctively always asked me was: "Did you get any results?". The questions you ask reflect the way you think.

Now, as you read the above .. tell me that this is not coming from a place of "I've gotta make this work" ... "I've gotta get something out of this" etc. ?

Again, desperation is a bad place to come from and especially meet women from.
The best place to come from is a place of not giving a fuck about whether or not you get something out of this !

But I mean realy not caring ... not trying to "fake it" that you don't care about the results .. while in the back of your mind you're still thinking ".. If i'll act as if I dont care about the result, I'll get a result" .. because that is still focusing on wanting to get a result !

Some of you may think "But this is counter productive! If you want a result, you've got to try and get a result, no ?". YES, but why do so with much pressure on yourself ?????

Look, let me give you an illustration to explain my point: Think about a computer game you like. I personally realy like Minesweeper, here's a screenshot:



The purpose of this game is simple: You have empty cells that contain mines in them in random spots, and every time you click an empty cell it either opens up like in the image: every number shows the number of mines around that cell, or you open a mine and game over.

Now, this game is fun ! I can play it for hours. When I first started playing this game, I've had a hard time finishing even a simple 10x10 cells game :) But i've kept playing and kept practicing ... and today I'm at a level where I can finish the above screen in less than 2 minutes !

But thats the thing - when you play something, or do something without a pressure, from a place of fun - there's absolutely no way you can't succeed ! Most guys think about meeting a woman as some dangerous and important task they must finish successfully, because their entire ego is standing on the line ... And I'm telling you that this is a realy fucked up mindframe!
Why not turn meeting women into a game as well?

Think about the 3 points I gave you in the beginning of this post .. and think about all the benefits you could have if you change your orientation this way. Think just just how much more brain powers, energy and especially freely available mind thoughts and resources you can get at your disposal to meet women with when you come from this place !

YOUR GAME WILL EVEN BECOME BETTER AND SMOOTHER !

On the other hand ... imagine to yourself a wierd scenario : Some kidnappers take both of a kid's parents to hostage, and in order for the kid to get them back they give him a single opportunity to get them back : They give him to play Minesweeper. and he has never played this game before .. and now they tell him : You have 5 minutes to finish the advanced level. If you succeed, you get your parents back ... and if not, you will not see them again forever !

Do you realy think the kid will be able to even learn how to play the game with so much pressure being put on the line ?

Thats almost the same level of pressure guys put over themselves when it comes to women !!!

For some guys, meeting a hottie is considered a "one time opportunity" ... I think I've heard the phrase "Its now or never" more than I can even count LOL ....


So whats the solution ?

Change your orientation !

What if instead of seeing a woman as a "once in a lifetime opportunity" , "I've gotta make this work" , "I must get something out of this" ... you could think about it as an opportunity to have fun and find out what she's like ? (credits Ross Jeffries again!)


Here are some more nice realizations to help you:

1. She is not the only girl in the world that looks like that.

2. You don't even know what kind of a person she is ..

3. You never signed a contract that says that you must get something from her. I realy mean it. Your friends laugh at you because you have no girls? Your mother and father ask you why you don't have a girlfriend? You think that you're a loser because you have no chicks? This is all an ego issue. And its fucked up. Trust me, if you realy want to have a good girlfriend .. one that you will both enjoy your time with & will want to stay in a relationship with her .. you must SCREEN WOMEN. Not every beautiful woman has a personality you'd wanna mess with. The people who do not understand this concept are clowns. I've talked about this before.

Stay away from the desperation frame. I gave you enough reasons why in this post. Almost all the people I ever met who were desperate to meet women ended up with fucked up chicks they weren't even attracted to. I don't know whats the case with you and what are your standards, but I know that I aim high. I don't think anyone should compensate for a chick he's not even attracted to and is with her only for the sake of pleasing other people in his life. FUCK IT!

I realy wish that alot of people will get a chance to read this post.

-- leedrag0n

My opinion on lairs

Hey guys,

I assume that some of you who read this blog came from Alpha, which is the main place where I used to write and share most of my knowledge in the past.

At some point I stopped writing there, and in this post I'm going to explain why I chose to do so and also my big opinion on lairs these days.

Before I start talking about lairs, let me warn you against what is common in society today.

What is common, and is taught, and you can also just open your eyes and SEE it all around you, is: scared and ashamed people who have no ambition in life, who obey according to what society expects them, who are too dependent on other's opinions and acceptance, and who lack their own willpower and instead go through life based on someone else's willpower.

This may seem a bit controversial, but realy I don't believe that aiming for a "3rd degree in math" is someone's real goal. There has to be something below that, maybe such as "Getting accepted socially" or "Making alot of money" or hell even "Living an easier life".

But you see, thats exactly the problem - people these days are looking for ways to make their lives easier, so much that they have forgotten what "willpower" realy means.

This gets me back to the lairs. First and foremost, the biggest problem with "lairs" is that they don't have any screening mechanisms to filter out the people who join them. Most of them allow everyone to join in, and because of that the lair (or forums) most of the times gets filled with guys who inflict others with the wrong, loserish, bad attitudes that society inflicted on them.

The way I see it, most lairs have 2 basic attitude problems that will fuck up every one in them:

1. Lack of willpower to change - Many guys will join a lair because they "want to change", but they will look for easy solutions. The first moment they have to face something that is challenging their own comfort zones, they give up. The reason for this is simple - lack of willpower to change. Willpower is the power within that is greater than anything in life. Believe me, if some murderer ran at you in the street with a knife about to slice your throat, you will find amazing power within you to run away. that is willpower. Do you have the same level of power when it comes to changing yourself? What are you realy willing to do in order to change? If you don't have this, just leave the lairs and go live your life man. You are not ready yet to change yourself.

2. Caring too much about how others perceive it - People join the lair because they "want" to change (I just showed you in the previous paragraph how this "wanting" is not real), but the moment they have to face how others will think about their change they freak out. So I'm asking this again - How much do you realy want to change? If some murderer with a knife ran at you at the street, would you care about how others think about you when you run away from him? If so, you're probably already dead man!

Great!

So now here comes the big "reason" why I decided to stop writing in those lairs ..

You see, when I joined the community it was after years of frustration with women .. I was determined to change .. I had the inner power that was driving me that said that I'm willing to change and that no one could stop me ..

In the beginning I thought that it was something that was just the result of years of frustration, but I later discovered that it was simply my attitude - I am a winner!

This is how I am in sports, this is how I am in life.

This attitude realy has brought me to where I am, but it was realy just a decision shift. It is amazingly difficult for me to be able to relate with people who have no willpower, who have no ambition, and who care too much about what others think about them.

I used to think for a long time that maybe I can influence those people and show them an inspiration of myself so that they will want to become like me, but then I see that the lairs keeps filling up with loserish kind of people who keep dragging those folks back down the drain of improvement!!

This is realy infectious, and at some point I also felt it on myself - after having conversations with those kind of newcomers, it realy infects you with their frustrated / no hope / loserish attitude. And the moment I felt that, I knew it was time for me to take a step away from these people and to just live my life the way I want them to.

Thing is this - I don't think that going out and meeting women is that hard. In fact, its very easy to me. It only becomes difficult the moment I allow average frustrated chumps infect me with their bad attitudes and bad thinking ways.

So, this post goes out to all of you, I hope someone will understand the message I tried presenting here.

Yeah I know some people will say "Maybe you don't explain yourself good enough so people can understand you", well fuck it. I don't get paid for writing this, and this is my own blog so I can freely write whatever I want here, If you don't like this place - feel free to leave.

The choice is yours, I've made my decision.

-- leedrag0n

Be flexible enough!

Hey guys, hows it going ?

Today's post is about flexibility in your game.

It is generally an enhancement, or should i say a correction for my old post "Pickup Stages" where I talked about the 5 general stages of the pickup, which are:

1. Getting her Attention
2. Getting her interested sexually.
3. Isolating
4. Seducing her
5. Closing

You see, most of the PU materials talk about a "structure" from A-Z to follow, and even my old "Pickup stages" talked about it, but infact its a mistake to think this way.

Why ?

Yes it is good to know that women are emotionally driven, and to focus on the emotional states you want them to be in. Yes it is good to know a basic structure that you can follow (like the one i presented in my "Pickup stages" post).

But you should also know that women are differently wired than us, and their emotional states can jump back and forth very quickly between one state to another unexpectedly, a phenomenon that not only makes us unable to properly understand them (because we are not operating that way), but it also makes thinking in terms of a "structure" a terrible idea.

You can start talking with some girl, and while you expect her to open up in a "structured way", she can infact suddenly get so interested in you that she will be ready to kiss you right off the start!

So what i'd like to suggest you to do instead, is what my NLP mentor taught us: never take anything for granted - always test!

In terms of your game, this simply means that you should always test to see if she's physically ready. Its ok to have a basic "structure", but instead of waiting for the "close", you should totally forget about "close" and instead focus on the woman and see if she's ready.

So when it comes to the structure I presented to you, do it this way:

1. Get her attention
1t. Test to see if she's physically ready
2. Interest her in you sexually
2t. Test to see if she's physically ready
3. Isolate
3t. Test to see if she's physically ready
4. Seduce her
4t. Test to see if she's physically ready
..

Im sure you get what I mean now.

Basically, this structure is more similiar to the NLP therapy model of T.O.T.E , which means "Test, Operate, Test, Exit".

In NLP, when we work with a client, we generally put an outcome in mind = the desired change we want to achieve in him. And then, we simply start working in a TOTE model, which means: We start by testing his current state, then we perform our "magic", and then we test to see if the changed has worked by trying to put him back into the original state. If the change isn't complete, we go back and perform another "magic" and then test again. We repeat this as many times as needed, until we believe the change has been completed, and only then do we exit.

So when it comes to women, you should think in a similiar way: You put an outcome = sex with her, and then you start by testing her current state, and you start performing your "magic" over her, and then you test her state again to see if she's ready. If not, you continue and so on until you believe she's ready, and then you do your physical move towards sex.

If you'll start thinking this way, your game will become much more flexible, and much more efficient.

If you want to practice this using my techniques from the previous "Reprogramming your mind" post, use this attitude (credit, again, to Ross Jeffries): "Forget about 'closing' as something to be done at the end of an evening, and instead constantly test her to see if she's ready, because she may show you within the first minute she's ready to kiss you".

Feel free to leave your comments and questions.

-- leedrag0n

How to reprogram your mind

Hey all !

Today's post is a most exciting one for me - It's about how to reprogram your mind, a skill that is unquestionably the most important skill of your success.

Why is it important to reprogram your mind ?

In any given situation in the real world, your mind will usually automatically respond based on your habitual ways of responding that are familiar to it up until that moment. Not always do these "habitual ways of responding" are good choice, or even something you'd logically do. Maybe there's a better way of responding that can lead to more positive results ?

Sure there is .. but more than often it happends that guys who "logically" know a certain attitude ... or a certain belief .. will go out and still get their old ways of responding coming back again time after time. And as you probably already know ... the fact that you know something on the logical level , doesn't mean your mind understands it ... because the mind doesn't understand logic!

So what does the mind know and responds with ?
The mind knows and can respond based on what's familiar to it !

So in order to have a better way of responding , you have to make it something that will be familiar to your brain. You'll have to sort of "train" in your new way of responding ... so that next time when you're out ... it will just feel naturally for your mind to use the new way of responding instead of the old one !

And this is done only by reprogramming and training your mind ..

In order to help you understand how to do it properly, let's start (as always) with a basic core understanding first that will make this whole post way easier for you to understand ..

Core understanding - You are NOT born with fears, wrong attitudes or beliefs. ALL of those are things that YOU LEARN, ADOPT, PERSUADED INTO or maybe even FORCED INTO during your life, and because of that - you can UNLEARN THEM!

Yep, this is a fact here. I'm sure that if you'll ever ask your mom how you were back in the day when you were 4 years old kid, she will probably tell you that you were wayyy different than how you are today. You are not born with fears, fears are simply strategies you develope over time. same goes for beliefs, attitudes and habits.

Now, since I don't want this post to turn into a phylosophical / theoretical discussion and instead I realy want you to grasp the actually practical side here so you can realy understand this, I want you to do this: Remember, as best as you possibly can, the last time you were realy scared to approach a girl. If you can't or don't have any such situation ... try to remember the last time you wanted to meet a girl but didn't.

Now, as you recall that situation ... can you notice any feelings arisen ?

I'm willing to bet you do.

And if you do .. here's the other second understanding you should know ..

Basic understanding - the mind doesn't recognize the difference between a real event and a remembered/imagined event. It processes them BOTH the same!

If you have successfully recalled the situation I asked you to recall, you probably realized that those feelings came up to the surface, at some level. In terms of your mind, it can't tell the difference between a real event and a remember one, it processes them both the same, and thats why you were feeling those feelings again.

This is actually good news, because guess what?

Final understanding - If you can CHANGE the way you FEEL, THINK & ACT on your remembered / imagined event - the change will take affect in the real life event !

One of the things that any good NLP practitioner does when he starts working with a client, is to recall the scenario that contains the undesired response so he could have something to measure against when doing the changework (aka: "reprogramming"). When I asked you to recall the situation here, you have surely felt the undesired response at some level coming up, although it may not have been in the same magnitude as if it was realy happening. Many people mistakenly think thats because "Real life events are stronger than imagination", but in fact its not true. Some people can infact remember scenarios in very vivid details, as if they were actually happening again, some people can actually start to shake just from thinking about something.

The reason for this change in emotional level, is because usually most people don't remember situations exactly as they occured - they eliminate (aka: "delete") undesired details. This is a natural process of the brain. This is what is sometimes known as "selective memory", and we all have it. We remember what we want to remember, and forget what we want to forget.

However, those eliminated details can (and usually do) have an impact over the emotional response level that is received. For instance: if you recall some situation that happend to you, and you see yourself from the side (aka "disassociated"), you can find that if you try to recall the situation again as if it was happening from your own eyes (aka "associated") it has a MUCH more powerful emotional impact on the event. Or: If you recall some situation and can't hear any voices inside of it, try adding the sounds that were in that situation and you will see that it affects the emotional impact.

Many people do not know this knowledge, and make wrong conclusions about whats possible to be done with the mind, and fuck themselves up big time by this. don't follow them!

When you recall a scenario, and the response that pops up is an undesired one, thats only beacuse this is what your mind has learned to do in such scenarios up until now. Change the response on your imagined scenario, so the old response is no longer there, and instead you attach a new reponse that is much more desirable. Test it - try to recall the scenario again and see if the new, desired response comes up. If it does - You can repeat this process several times in order to "train" your mind with the new way of responding, and it is most likely that the new way of reponding will be there for you in the real world event.


So, you want to learn how to reprogram yourself?

If so - Go on ...

How to do it properly?

So much has been written on the internet about how to do reprogramming for your mind, I'm going to present my angle & tips here. Those are things that i have tested and has worked for me, and I'm going to give explanation as best as I can to each and one of them.

I think the most important thing to understand when you're about to do any sort of reprogramming is the next core understanding:


Core "reprogramming" understanding: ANY mind reprogramming can only be done using VISUALIZATION !!

I'm sure you've heard alot about visualization already and heard so many changework "gurus" talk about the importance of visualization, yet I'm willing to bet that you haven't realy done any visualizing yourself.

Many people don't do visualization because they do not believe visualization can actually work in changing them. What alot of people fail to realize is that they are actually all the time reprogramming back old limiting beliefs, past failures, and fears by constantly thinking and visualizing them in the present, and thus contantly reinforcing them.

You must understand this: Your brain is a neurological network of neurons. Neural pathways are created and changed by events that happend to you. The more you experience something - the more your mind gets trained in it. The more your mind gets trained in it - the more the neural pathways related to this event are triggered. The more the neural pathways of this event are triggered - The bigger and stronger they become. The bigger and stronger they become - The more "automatic" you do it. The more "automatic" you do it - it becomes part of who you are, so you don't have to think about it anymore !

Visualization is the creative part of your brain, and any form of "reprogramming", or even "programming" must involve visualization since it is a creative process - something that you create and change.

Cognitive understandings are not enough, because the mind doesn't understand logic - it almost always does what is familiar, or what it was "trained" to do, its just that simple!

You have realized that your mind can't differentiate between a real event and an imagined one, it processes them both the same. So when you start using visualization, you begin to construct events that will eventually change neural associations in your mind.

You must realy understand this, if you can't understand just how important visualization is for reprogramming your mind, please stop reading this post now - it will be completely useless for you.

If you understand it, then move on ..



Attitude change process using Visualization

In this post, I'm going to explain how to reprogram your mind for an attitude change, but this process can also work great for beliefs change, habits change etc.

Step One: Open a blank document and write a caption with your new, desired, attitude, marked with bold and underline!

There's a magical / hard to explain power about writing. I can assure you that. Many of the posts you read here in my blog, were deeply burned into my mind almost immediately after I wrote them that I could feel changes happening instantly in my thinking ways after writing them.

Why is it so powerful I cannot explain, but I do know that when you write things they get burned into your mind way more powerfully than if you simply say them to yourself, and as a proof .. why do you think that business schedules are written into calendars? :)

So now, after you opened the document and wrote your new desired attitude as a bold caption, it will give your mind a nice new direction ..

Step Two: Below the caption you wrote, write the following instruction: "Remember a situation, not long ago, where you had an opportunity to meet a very attractive woman.. and now imagine how you'd look, act, sound, feel if you had the new attitude .."

Again, You use the power of writing to give your mind directions - you can verbally give yourself a command to remember something, but when you visually write it - the message gets more strongly into your mind.

Great, now after you remember the situation ..

Step Three: Below the instruction , write: "The situation I just remembered:" and then describe the situation.

Yep, simply start describing the situation as you remember it. You don't have to go into full details here, just write enough to bring back the associated image (the way the situation looked from your own eyes). When you're writing to describe events that happend to you, something in the power of writing connects strongly to your memory and allows you to bring back the memory very strongly and vividly to your mind. That's all that is required here.

Step Four: Below the description you just wrote, write: "Now .. how would you act, think, feel and behave differently in the same situation, with the new attitude?"

Now that you have the vividly rememberd scenario playing in your head, it is time for you to start imagining the new response.

It is possible that when you remember the old scenario, old feelings (such as pressure, anxiety) etc will rise up. Because again like I said, the mind can't tell the difference between imagination and real events. That's not a bad sign, infact - its a good sign. Because if you can change the way you respond to it in your imagination, the real life response will be the same.

But, if any feelings like pressure, anxiety etc come up - melt them using a technique called "Equanimity" that is best explained by Ross Jeffriess, in this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-v2cHfHERU

And then, once you melt the feelings and you are clean and relaxed, go on to the next step ..

Step Five: Imagine what you look like from another person's point of view. From the eyes of a stranger that looks from sideways on you and the woman.

And write how it looks.

This is called disassociated imagery, and it will give your mind a great new direction for the new programming.

Step Six: Fly into your own eyes, and see the new scenario from your own eyes

And write it, this is called associated imagery.

Step Seven: Fly into the woman's eyes, and see how you look from her eyes

And write it as well, big credits to Ross Jeffries again for this tip, it is laid out in his entire "Seduction Mastery Series" in the Youtube link i just gave you.

Step Eight: Physically step up, with your eyes closed, and fly again into your own eyes, and now both see the new scenario from your own eyes and involve (act) yourself physically and verbally as if it was realy happening

This is the final step here, and now after you have "programmed" yourself into the new situation from 3 different perspective, this final step will be so easily done and yet so powerfully programmed into you.

Step Nine: Repeat 2 more times

You can bring up 2 more scenarios and run the whole thing again .. or even more if you like.

Just make sure after it to ..

Final step: Forget it and let it go!

And this is because things that you forget tend to get burried better in your subconscious mind and be ready for you at the real world situation. If you want a proof for it - Have you ever noticed how stuff that you thought about yesterday, or this morning, suddenly arises today and you find it more useful and have new answers to it ?

That was it, it was a long post but I hope that some of you will find this useful.

And of course, feel free to give me your comments.

-- leedrag0n

Get Motivated !

Hey all !

Its been some time, I have no idea if you keep following but anyways this post is going to be a realy important one - its about how to get motivation to go out and meet women !

Sometimes you run into times where you have no motivation to go out and meet women - it can be because you work too much, maybe you just ended a relationship, maybe you got rejected a few times and it turned you down, perhaps you feel its too much work to get out there and approach women, etc.

So whatever reason it shall be - this post is for you!

Here are 4 main points that will help you getting back to the field :

1. If sales people can approach & sell (for money paid!!!) amazingly stupid and unuseful products - there's no reason in the world for you to not be able to sell love or sex for women for free. Read this one 100 times until you get it. THIS IS A BASIC CORE UNDERSTANDING!

2. Presenting an idea (or anything else) is way easier (and in some cases even only possible) when there's rapport - so if you get rejected or some girl don't flow with you, instead of taking it personally as an insult or as an indication of your attractiveness, simply realize most chances are there was a lack of rapport between you two.

3. Most of the time, people buy things (or take decisions) based on an impulse, aka emotion. If it just looks or sounds logically good or right for them its still not going to be enough to drive them. You must focus and create the emotional states that will drive their behaviour and decisions.

4. Any fear you may have - Fear of rejection, Fear of approaching, Fear of getting laughed on, Fear of failure, etc - any fear can be removed by proper reprogramming of your mind ! Thats what NLP was created for.


Ponder those for a while ..

-- leedrag0n


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