Imagine to yourself that playing the mating game was as easy as opening "Minesweeper" on your desktop .. You'd play it all day long , right ?
I mean think about the differences between those two.
Minesweeper is a fun game, you just click on it and it popups on your screen, you can play it, if you win cool, if not you just press F2 and play a new game, no emotional involvement is required, piece of cake.
Now compare that to playing the mating game, you need to go out and start approaching tons of women, and have emotional & ego involvement , and persist, and .... right ?
WRONG !
If there is ONE concept that really FUCKS UP alot of guy's sex life is the wrong belief that gaming chicks requires alot of efforts. Its NOT !
75% of all you need is simply Basic Availability - Go OUTSIDE !
Think about the following for a second :
A well known clothing store in a mall that sells brand products.
They don't do THAT much effort out of the ordinary to sell their products, right ?
They are simply located somewhere in the mall, and they are OPEN from 10:00 in the morning till 22:00 in the evening. 12 Hours available every day. People that come into the mall simply see the store from a distance, and if it has something that may interest them they simply go inside the store and start checking the products. If the store contains quality products or has a good reputation they WILL sell clothes without hardly any efforts.
Basic Availability, as an analogy, is exactly the same idea about YOU & Women that you see throughout your day. As you GO OUT of your house, you pass by many women. These women SEE YOU, and in a matter of short seconds they already make a quick decision whether you ATTRACT them or not.
These women, as an analogy, are exactly the same as the kind of people that went inside the clothing store - If they are ATTRACTED to you, they WILL give small signals of interest, such as short eye contact here and then, physical proximity, change their walking direction so it will collide with yours, turn their body to your direction, etc etc ..
And out of these women who are attracted to you, you ALWAYS have the option to choose for which women you give a "presentation" of your "product" ;)
So you see, you don't need THAT much efforts to be put in order to get chicks.
75% of all you need is to simply to go out of your house.
There are enough women who are interested in you just the way you are, open your eyes !
-- leedrag0n
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Monday, July 7, 2008
Attraction & Persistence
One of the key factors of any successful PU is whether or not the woman is actually interested in you as a sexual partner or not, aka "attraction".
The more she is interested in finding a sexual partner or in you, the easier your game is, The less she is interested , the harder your game is.
For most guys, the perspective of picking up a girl they like is : I go out of my house, i SEE a woman of my choice, and then i just go and randomly pick her up.
But this is not a smart way to conduct a happy sex life,
You've probably heard the question im about to ask you now before.
Do think about it :
What is easier - To gain $100,000 by trying to collect $10 from 10,000 people ?
Or to gain $100,000 by trying to collect $10,000 from 10 people ?
Well the right answer here is the second way.
But what's the real difference between these two ways ?
Well, i'll tell you. The difference here is at where you put most of your efforts at.
The first way, collecting 10$ from 10,000 people requires that you put most of your efforts in trying to convince every person to give you 10$ and then run it over thousands of people randomly.
The second way, though, requires that you put most of your efforts simply in FINDING 10 people who are generous enough each to give you 10,000$, thats it.
Get to think about it for a second - in the first way, out of these 10,000 people you tried to collect 10$ from, SURELY were at least 3 or 4 people who would also generously give you 10,000$ if you asked them for, but how could you KNOW this if you were only focused on asking them for 10$ ??????
Back to our analogy now - Difference between easy gaming and hard gaming.
Chicks who are interested in you are usually easier targets game wise.
Everyday you walk out of your house, there are PLENTY of women who ARE interested in you everywhere you go to - They give you EC, stand closer to you, and in general are receptive to you gaming them. Believe it or not, SOME of these chicks are even EXACTLY your type looks wise. Going for chicks like that makes you collecting your $100,000 much easier, however more time needs to be invested in finding those chicks, hence - More efforts are put in finding those chicks, less efforts in gaming them.
Chicks who are NOT interested in you, for any reason that could be : You're not her "EXACT" type looks wise, she has no sex drive, she has no interest in sex, she has mental issues against sex, whatsoever, are harder targets game wise.
Everyday as you walk out of your house, there are plenty of women who are NOT interested in you too, you gotta accept it bro : not every chick falls over for you. These chicks usually give no EC, they stand far from you, they do whatever they can to possibly avoid any interaction with you. Going for chicks like that makes it almost impossible to collect anything from them, more of your efforts needs to be put in convincing and persuating them to be with you, so yeah - less efforts to actually find them if you just blatantly go at them cold approach, but more efforts needs to be put in trying to convince them to even give you "10$".
The analogy of the 10$ and 10,000$ is there out of purpose.
Believe it or not, just as much as there are people that giving 10,000$ is nothing for them, there are people that giving 10$ is ALOT for them.
Go out looking for those people who will give you 10,000$ happily and you'll have a great and healthy sex drive finding chicks who are interested in what you're about to ask them for.
Try instead to go out for the people who make you a hard time giving you even 10$ , and your sex life will keep running away from you, such as going for chicks who are NOT interested in you, and just waste your time and efforts trying to convince them to give you something they dont want to anyways.
-- leedrag0n
The more she is interested in finding a sexual partner or in you, the easier your game is, The less she is interested , the harder your game is.
For most guys, the perspective of picking up a girl they like is : I go out of my house, i SEE a woman of my choice, and then i just go and randomly pick her up.
But this is not a smart way to conduct a happy sex life,
You've probably heard the question im about to ask you now before.
Do think about it :
What is easier - To gain $100,000 by trying to collect $10 from 10,000 people ?
Or to gain $100,000 by trying to collect $10,000 from 10 people ?
Well the right answer here is the second way.
But what's the real difference between these two ways ?
Well, i'll tell you. The difference here is at where you put most of your efforts at.
The first way, collecting 10$ from 10,000 people requires that you put most of your efforts in trying to convince every person to give you 10$ and then run it over thousands of people randomly.
The second way, though, requires that you put most of your efforts simply in FINDING 10 people who are generous enough each to give you 10,000$, thats it.
Get to think about it for a second - in the first way, out of these 10,000 people you tried to collect 10$ from, SURELY were at least 3 or 4 people who would also generously give you 10,000$ if you asked them for, but how could you KNOW this if you were only focused on asking them for 10$ ??????
Back to our analogy now - Difference between easy gaming and hard gaming.
Chicks who are interested in you are usually easier targets game wise.
Everyday you walk out of your house, there are PLENTY of women who ARE interested in you everywhere you go to - They give you EC, stand closer to you, and in general are receptive to you gaming them. Believe it or not, SOME of these chicks are even EXACTLY your type looks wise. Going for chicks like that makes you collecting your $100,000 much easier, however more time needs to be invested in finding those chicks, hence - More efforts are put in finding those chicks, less efforts in gaming them.
Chicks who are NOT interested in you, for any reason that could be : You're not her "EXACT" type looks wise, she has no sex drive, she has no interest in sex, she has mental issues against sex, whatsoever, are harder targets game wise.
Everyday as you walk out of your house, there are plenty of women who are NOT interested in you too, you gotta accept it bro : not every chick falls over for you. These chicks usually give no EC, they stand far from you, they do whatever they can to possibly avoid any interaction with you. Going for chicks like that makes it almost impossible to collect anything from them, more of your efforts needs to be put in convincing and persuating them to be with you, so yeah - less efforts to actually find them if you just blatantly go at them cold approach, but more efforts needs to be put in trying to convince them to even give you "10$".
The analogy of the 10$ and 10,000$ is there out of purpose.
Believe it or not, just as much as there are people that giving 10,000$ is nothing for them, there are people that giving 10$ is ALOT for them.
Go out looking for those people who will give you 10,000$ happily and you'll have a great and healthy sex drive finding chicks who are interested in what you're about to ask them for.
Try instead to go out for the people who make you a hard time giving you even 10$ , and your sex life will keep running away from you, such as going for chicks who are NOT interested in you, and just waste your time and efforts trying to convince them to give you something they dont want to anyways.
-- leedrag0n
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Horniness & Masturbation
Ok, Let's assume we managed to "fix" our entire inner game.
We now have confidence, we are relaxed around women, we can approach and initiate conversations easily and can lead things the right way towards sex. We can "just be ourselves" around women and can freely laugh, smile, tease or even feel sad and bring up all kinds of emotions from within us without having to feel bad to ashame of them.
As i've mentioned several times already in this blog, we humans are driven mostly by emotions and way less by logic, and in the case of women its even more true.
Any emotion, or STATE, that you bring out from within yourself, tends to be reciprocated by the woman you interact with and get her feeling that way too.
And now we come to the point of Horniness, aka "Sexual State" - a 'new' kind of emotion, kindly reserved for adults, and to Masturbation - an activity we do that kills Horniness.
Horniness is basically a natural feeling in a healthy and sexually functional human body, a desire to have sex with a partner of the opposite sex. Feeling horny makes one become more aggressive sexually, which is the natural role of the male in the mating game.
Alot of guys think that being sexually agressive isn't an attractive behaviour because they keep listening to women's explanations for "why they rejected that guy" saying "he was just a horny punk", and it is BECAUSE of such sayings that it later becomes a conditioning like that it is that guys depress their sexuality.
So lets make a point clear here.
When a woman is NOT attracted to a guy, she WILL find any and all reasons in the world to reject him, on the other hand if she IS attracted, she will find any and all reasons in the world to accept him.
Aside of the fact horniness is a NATURAL human emotion , it gets sexual arousal to be PROJECTED outwards, a thing that WILL cause a woman who is attracted to you to get sexually aroused back to you. Yes, a woman who is attracted to a guy will get MASSIVELY turned on if she gets a feeling the man himself is so turned on for her, he's about to lose control.
So if you used to masturbate in order to decrease your sex drive because you felt its about to "ruin your well controlled game" - STOP IT NOW. Never depress your sexuality & horniness, which are actually what MAKES you a man !
One other aspect of Horniness, other than the fact that it makes you more aggressive, it gets you thinking more about women. This is again NATURAL. Forget about all that "Dont be needy" kind of conditionings, AGAIN = they are BASED on listening to women who were NOT attracted to guys approaching them giving their "thoughts" on guys hitting on them.
Instead of masturbating next time, use the Horniness to direct your mind thinking more about how you can actually find a girl to have sex with when you're feeling like this.
-- leedrag0n
We now have confidence, we are relaxed around women, we can approach and initiate conversations easily and can lead things the right way towards sex. We can "just be ourselves" around women and can freely laugh, smile, tease or even feel sad and bring up all kinds of emotions from within us without having to feel bad to ashame of them.
As i've mentioned several times already in this blog, we humans are driven mostly by emotions and way less by logic, and in the case of women its even more true.
Any emotion, or STATE, that you bring out from within yourself, tends to be reciprocated by the woman you interact with and get her feeling that way too.
And now we come to the point of Horniness, aka "Sexual State" - a 'new' kind of emotion, kindly reserved for adults, and to Masturbation - an activity we do that kills Horniness.
Horniness is basically a natural feeling in a healthy and sexually functional human body, a desire to have sex with a partner of the opposite sex. Feeling horny makes one become more aggressive sexually, which is the natural role of the male in the mating game.
Alot of guys think that being sexually agressive isn't an attractive behaviour because they keep listening to women's explanations for "why they rejected that guy" saying "he was just a horny punk", and it is BECAUSE of such sayings that it later becomes a conditioning like that it is that guys depress their sexuality.
So lets make a point clear here.
When a woman is NOT attracted to a guy, she WILL find any and all reasons in the world to reject him, on the other hand if she IS attracted, she will find any and all reasons in the world to accept him.
Aside of the fact horniness is a NATURAL human emotion , it gets sexual arousal to be PROJECTED outwards, a thing that WILL cause a woman who is attracted to you to get sexually aroused back to you. Yes, a woman who is attracted to a guy will get MASSIVELY turned on if she gets a feeling the man himself is so turned on for her, he's about to lose control.
So if you used to masturbate in order to decrease your sex drive because you felt its about to "ruin your well controlled game" - STOP IT NOW. Never depress your sexuality & horniness, which are actually what MAKES you a man !
One other aspect of Horniness, other than the fact that it makes you more aggressive, it gets you thinking more about women. This is again NATURAL. Forget about all that "Dont be needy" kind of conditionings, AGAIN = they are BASED on listening to women who were NOT attracted to guys approaching them giving their "thoughts" on guys hitting on them.
Instead of masturbating next time, use the Horniness to direct your mind thinking more about how you can actually find a girl to have sex with when you're feeling like this.
-- leedrag0n
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