Not escalating ?

If you are not approaching, or not escalating , or not progressing any of your PUs to a sexual encounter, then this post is for you !

There are basically 2 main reasons for this :

1. you dont want to
2. you do not believe the chick will want it

Lets look on those for a sec ..

Number 1 is kinda trivial here : when you dont really want something, you will not do it. Makes sense ?

Do you remember the last girl you talked to as part of a PU attempt ?
Can you remember a moment during the interaction, when you started thinking about having sex with her and how lusty and exciting that can be, perhaps to the point you started to think how to make it happend right there and that night ?

If you answered "yes" to this question, Then you obviously DID want to have sex with this chick, so point number 1 is fixed here.

Lets take a look at number 2 now ..

When you believe a chick will not want sex from you, you will not offer it to her !
and this is a tricky concept to understand, but an important one.

You see, most of the time we do things on autopilot.
If we wouldn't, and had to consicously think about EVERY single action we do, we'd go NUTS !
All the actions we take, behaviours we project, strategies and decisions are made automatically according to what we believe is right, possible, or profitable for us.

Here's an example :

Say you're in a bus, and some guy sits near you.
Will you try to sell him the air he's breathing for 20$ a kilo ?
Of course not !
Why not ?
Because you KNOW he wont buy it, and probably he'll also think you're nuts or lunatic for even trying to offer him something like that.

But lets say, for the sake of sanity, that you talked to him for several minutes during the bus ride .. and you found out he's a guitarist .. so you decide to offer him to form a band together.
Will you try that ?
Of course !
Why ?
Because you KNOW that this is a reasonable offer he may be interested in and may take in. You've got nothing to lose, yeah he may say that he's not interested because he already plays in a band .. but you know that it is OK to at least go for it and offer that for him.

So you see, what you believe in affects your actions and decisions drastically, and when you believe that a chick will not want sex from you, you definitely won't offer that for her.

Tadaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa !

And this is a big one here, so lets look at that for a moment too.

OK well first you should know that women LOVE to do things that make them feel great.
Massages, Spa's, Showers, Dress good, Shopping .. etc .. and sex is DEFINITELY something that feels wonderful for them, probably way more than it is for us infact.

To further increase this understanding, lets assume they don't want good sex.

If it was true, they won't invest so much in their looks !
they wont THINK ABOUT IT and FANTASIZE ABOUT IT all the time !
They wont write sex articles in newspapers on how to get "better sex from your partner", they wont invent "the big sex questionaire", they wont ask for advices on sexuality forums on how to have better orgasms, they wont go out with their girlfriends in packs every weekend and send AIs for good looking guys to approach them, they wont TALK about it between themselves ... further even : they won't talk about men all the time !

I mean seriously - why do WOMEN talk so much about MEN if they dont interest them ?

Also, On the biological level - sex (or: replication) is one of the TOP TWO life goals (the other one is to survive).
So a woman claiming that she "dont want to get laid", is as same as a woman saying she don't wanna live.

So as you see, women DO want to get laid just as much as we are.


Now you gotta ask yourself another question here.
Lets assume you want to get laid, and you know women want to get laid too.
But you believe that she will not want to have sex with YOU.
When you believe that she will not want the sex from YOU, guess what will happend ?
Exactly - YOU WILL NOT OFFER IT TO HER !!!

Same reasoning here.
It is a simple basic, even CORE level belief in your product !

You realized here already that women DO want to get laid just as much as we do, but if you still do not believe that she will want to have the sex with YOU, go back and read the previous post "The illusion of beauty" if you have issues with good-looking women, and go back and do the "Confidence" post again.

For your convenience, i brought the link to the last one here :

http://leedrag0n.blogspot.com/2008/04/confidence-101.html


-- leedrag0n