There are no failures !

Hey all !

Its been a while, but im back here to write to you from somewhere in Israel.

Has any of you ever had a motivation decrease ?
Like as if you went out to the field, tried to seduce a couple of women, and it went nowhere with them .. and how the next time you thought about going out to the field, you found yourself wandering things like "Oh well, what should i go out for? Im not gonna succeed anyway. ." , or "Why talk to her? Im not gonna sleep with her anyways .." , or things of the sort ?

MANY MANY guys, including me, had moments like those.

Something that I realized, is that usually these kind of thoughts are simply a result of a wrong belief, or filter, through which you screen the world with.

When you allow yourself to generalize something which is based on very few instances, the results can be catastrophic for you.

I always like to mention the story of Thomas Edison, the man who invented the lamp.

If you know his story or not, Edison have attempted to create 9999 instances of a lamp that didn't work, and only in the 10,000 attempt it worked.

When people asked him how come that he didn't give up trying, he answered : "I didnt fail, i only found 9999 ways to build a lamp that didnt work".

Nice story, isnt it ?

I want to share a short story here now, of my own.

I was a bit of extra horny one friday night, and i decided to go out and be a bit outrageous and try to pull back home a threesome with 2 girls.

Basically I knew that in order for me to find 2 girls that are suitable for a threesome, i should look for :

1. Two girls that are attracted to me. Kinda obvious, isnt it ?
2. Two girls who like to share things between them
3. (Preferred) Two girls who are attracted to each other, aka : Bisexuals.
4. Two girls who are open minded and adventuruos, and like to try new things.

So that was basically my "screening" list, of things to look for.

Long story short - I went out alone, to a crowded area in Tel Aviv and approached 15 different sets, and in the end I didn't succeed in pulling back home 2 girls with me.

But at least I settled for a nice porn movie :)

Anyways, the point im trying to make here is, and pay close attention to this :

Does the fact, that i approached 15 different sets and didnt succeed in pulling them back home for a thresome, means that im a failure ??

Will it be true to say, that because i didnt succeed 15 times to bring back home a threesome, it generally means that i will never succeed in pulling a threesome again ??

NO !

All that it means, is that the method, the techniques, and the strategy that I used at THAT night, with THOSE girls - just didn't work.

Thats all that it means !

I can always go home and look again at what i did right and what i could have improved and then tweak this structure and go out and try it again.

But how can anyone be able to THINK like this, if he can't realize that You never fail - You only get feedback on whats working, and whats not. And later, when you look at this feedback with crystal clear mind, you'll be able to learn ALOT from it, and to tweak your way towards success !!

And that, my friends, is my free gift for you.

-- leedrag0n