Sunday, October 3, 2010

Knowing the "right" thing to do..

Sometimes you meet a new woman, and she is very attractive to you so that you want her.

You begin to interact and she's with you - she shows interest back in you by asking you questions and showing understanding of YOUR world, she invests in the conversation and talks back as well, and she is receptive and smiling and flirtatious with you all the way.. and then you make some kind of a move.. maybe you suggest something and she doesn't reply back to you.. and that makes you begin to worry about whether what you did was right or wrong.. Are you familiar with this?

This is unquestionably an unpleasant feeling: feelings of doubt in yourself, worrying about the outcome, etc. It's never something pleasant!

What can you do to get rid of it?

Learn about the power of EVALUATING things on YOURSELF !

Ask yourself this:

How would YOU react & think, if a GIRL that you are "slightly" interested in, did THAT thing on you?

This will greately help you evaluate your actions and know if they are right or wrong. And If you already did something "wrong", at least you've NOW learned a new tool that will help you avoid making the same mistakes in the future.

Remember, there's never failure - you ALWAYS learn something. And even a "failure" contains a lesson in it, that will help you get even better results in the future, so you at least EARNED something new, that you didn't have before - and that will surely assist you in the future.

-- leedrag0n

2 comments:

Rave said...

אז אתה לא רוצה להקשיב למילים האלו.. ולא מעוניין להבין מדוע הן עובדות... אבל אם תתחבר לזה בצורה עמוקה... ותרגיש בלב... כמה גאונות יש מאחורי משהו שאין בידיוק פה... אז תבין שלא קראת את מה שאמרתי... ולא הבנת... ואם כבר הבנת... אז זה מעולה ונוכל להרגיש בינינו חיבור מיוחד... רק כלפי הדברים הנכונים בחיים. וזה יהיה אחלה רק אל תמשך עכשיו... כלפי הדברים שאני אומר.. אבל אם כבר נמשכת.. אז תודה בזה שיש פה משהו

אגב אחלה פוסט אחי, כמה שזה נכון..
אהבתי :)

Schwinger said...

Hey there! Glad to see you are still writing. i have a lot of catching up to do since i am very busy with army shit... hopefully this weekend i'l have some time to do some reading and practicing . Meanwhile, i just wanted to say i am still appreciating every thing you write. you have been really helpful to me.