Getting laid explained - part 2

GO OUT WITH A GOAL IN MIND TO GET LAID !

Sounds simple huh ?

As simple as that may seem, this is another real core level understanding.
It is realy an addition to the previous one i posted earlier.

When you see a girl that you like, and dont have a goal (or intention) in your mind about her, whether it be sex, or relationship, phone number etc. you are once again in the "getting lucky" zone. How come, you may ask ?

The mind works by setting goals up, and it knows how to achieve them intuitively.

When you're hungry, you don't think how to approach your refrigerator and how to get it interested in giving you food - you just go and take something to eat and you don't THINK about it at all.

Another great example : When you're in a need to find a job, you don't pretty much think about it that much. You just write your best possible resume (or CV) , send it to a bunch of companies, make alot of phone calls and setup job interviews, and then you just go and do your best at each one. You'll KNOW what to do when you need to find a job, and even if you don't - you WILL find a way to figure it out yourself - you'll either look it up on articles on the internet, ask a relative to help you out, etc.

The mind works by setting up goals, and if you'll do a little research on it you'll find it evident - anyone who ever achieved anything DIDN'T always know how he's gonna do it, he only set it up as a goal to achieve. And that is most times all you REALLY need.

The mind only needs you to set up a goal, and it will find ways to achieve it for you.

Well, how does all that amounts to women and setting up goals with them ?

Well, what happends many times is that you see a girl that you like and you only think about how to open her. That goes back to what i've been talking about in the previous post : you are focused around the opening itself.

A big mistake guys do alot is they simply set up the wrong goals in their mind !

"Open her" as your initial goal sets up a frame of you saying something to her, and wait for her to respond and then act accordingly, that means you DON'T know for sure how the interaction will go from there.

Imagine to yourself now, how DIFFERENT will you open her if your goal was to "get her interested in me", instead ?

For every goal you setup, your mind sets up a strategy, different mindsets and creates different thinking ways so you can achieve it. How does it do it? Nobody knows, thats part of the magic of the mind.

You will simply NOT THINK the same when your goal is to "be social and interact" as to when your goal is to "get laid tonight". When you see a woman and your goal is to "Approach her", you will not think or behave the same as to when your goal is to "Have sex with her tonight".

When you have no real intention towards a girl, you eventually will either "get lucky" with her making some (or most) of the moves for you OR lose her at some point because you either : 1. Didnt get her to feel the desired states, and she didn't feel them by herself, 2. didnt know what you should do next, 3. hesitate about your next move, which will cause to either 4. she will feel your hesitation and make things WORSE on you or either 5. you will "move next" in a miscalibrated moment or attempt to isolate her when she's not in state, because you weren't focused on the states YOU wanted to move her into, because you came with no plan.

Again another real core level understanding here, not just for getting laid but for any goal in life - if you want something, INTENT IT, SAY IT OUT LOUD TO YOURSELF.

"I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THIS GIRL NOW !"

I will later show you a great strategy i've come up with to achieve this.

Mean while, ponder that for a while,

leedrag0n